Have you recently broken up with the one you love? Was he man of your dreams…the girl you planned on spending the rest of your life with?
Do you find yourself wanting to get back together with him or her, but the big question is, “How to get your ex to want you back?”
Love…sometimes it seems to be the biggest mystery in the world. And yet oddly enough, it’s a lot less complicated than you might think.
There are a lot of reasons why a relationship can go bad, why one person falls out of love with another. Most of them are based on some very basics things, many of which we forget when we’ve been in a relationship for awhile. Discovering how to get your ex to want you back in many instances simply just requires application of a few reminders in the way you act and do things.
Here are some examples of that means…
First, take a step back in time and recall how you were when your ex and you both met. Chances are you were both fairly independent, confident…but not egotistical. You liked your space and didn’t require constant attention. You were polite, respectful, and courteous.
When you were first getting to know your boyfriend or girlfriend, you really paid attention when he or she was talking. And you listened to what he or she said.
So let me ask you about now. If you really thought about it, do you act the same way toward your ex now as you did then? It’s important to be honest with yourself in that answer.
Do you still act with courtesy and politeness? Are you more demanding in what you want? Do you still treat him or her with the same respect, giving the same kind of care and attentiveness? Do you still maintain a healthy level of independence giving him his space and you getting yours?
Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not trying to beat you down for how you’ve may have changed. We all change as we get older. We all get, “comfortable in our own skin” as that say and sometimes “too” comfortable in our relationships, maybe even taking things and people for granted. You would be normal in that process. However, in that happening, sometimes we get lazy and even lose some of the qualities that made our boyfriend or girlfriend fall in love with us in the first place.
And if you really want to know how to get your ex to want you back, a game changing answer is in identifying those qualities that won him or her over in the first place and getting back to those ways…even developing some new ones that show signs of positive self growth.
Consider this for a moment. How are you handling your physical being these days? Could you maybe hit the gym and…tune up the engine?
What about paying your ex a sincere compliment the next time you see him or her, doing so without requiring any response nor with the intent of “looking for something” in return. Or, what about doing something for yourself that helps to just improve you mentally or emotionally?
When it comes to getting your ex to want you back, doing these things is what will make it happen.
In all honesty, discovering how to get your ex to want you back involves some fairly basic steps. And truthfully, they all start with you. Becoming a better you. A new and improved you. Not just one your ex will like…but one you will like too.
Wishing you all the best,