My Story of How I Got Back Together With My Ex

So after getting the new book, it became my prized possession. I must have read it 10 times in order to get everything down right.

I was able to see that in all my attempts to do everything right to get back together with my ex...I was actually doing everything WRONG!!! Time and space was necessary. Enough to let him know I wasn't and obsessed nut case and only so much to allow me to grow, make some changes, and let him see a new me.

Interestingly enough, I learned that finding a new me was important too. In fact, finding a new me, improving on who I was ended up being more important than showing off the new boyfriend to my ex. Ultimately, it was that new me that helped me get back together with my ex.

Even still it took more than improving on me. It took a lot of other things combined with my own personal changes to win back his love.

(All those other things are all described in the book called the Magic of Making Up. You can learn more about the book here.)

Again, to keep a long story short, (and I could go on and on because when you get back together with your ex, there is so much happiness you can't help but want to talk about it constantly), after about 18 months, my ex and I are back together. I can't stop smiling. Not to mention, our relationship is better than ever thanks to what I've learned about me...thanks to what I've learned from The Magic of Making Up.

To think, just over a year ago my world had come crashing down and I thought that I would never be with the man I love, ever again. And now, not only was I able to get back together with my ex, we are happier than ever.

This dream come trus is something I would wish for everyone.

(The Magic of Making Up...it works!!!)

To your success in love,

Jo Chris

Get Back Together With My Ex - My Story Continued...

For awhile I was lost. Although I really wanted him back, I really had no idea about how to get I could. And...although he broke up with me, he kept calling which told me that I still meant something. Still, with no answers about how to proceed for us to be together again.

Of course during this time while I stayed at home to wallow in my own self pity, he was out trying to find love..."in all the wrong places". Meaning, everywhere I was not. And when I heard he was interested in someone else and started seeing someone new...that's when I made my biggest mistake. I broke his trust.

I started talking to his best friend about him trying to find some solace in the fact that he had found somebody new. I saw the look on my ex's face when my he learned we had been talking about him. I won't ever forget it because I knew I had hurt him by breaking the trust and faith he had in me...even as a friend. And I knew he was mad. That just made my chances as getting back together with him, non-existent.

The communication with him had all but stopped. And I knew that I had messed up pretty bad. My hopes had been squashed at ever getting back together. But then I did some research. Even amongst the smallest of hopes, I was still trying to find a way to make amends and get my ex back.

That's when I found a book that would be the answer to prayer. To be continued...

(If your looking for an answer to your prayer to get back together with your ex...visit The Magic of Making Up. I know that if it can help me, it can help you.)

To your ultimate success in love,

Jo Chris

Get Back Together With Your Ex - My Story

I wanted to share with you my story of how I was able to get back together with my ex. I hope that it will give you some inspiration and hope for your situation.

(So I don't bore you with details, here is the abbreviated version.)

I met him a few years back under some bizarre circumstances. He was seeing someone I knew, they were having problems, broke up, and somewhere along the line I came into the picture. I didn't ever plan on anything happening but it did.

We were together for several months and although we share good times when we were together, we weren't really going anywhere. And the person he thought I was got lost in the comfort of the relationship. (That seemed to be a habit of mine. My independance always seemed to disappear when I got involved with another person and I ended up getting wrapped up in them.)

Eventually, as in the previous relationships, I sensed something was wrong so I did the usual. By a really nice gift and drop the "L" word. Of course that worked...for a couple days and then I got the "Dear Jo" call. Of course not the one I wanted to hear.

Left broken hearted again but this one. Well, this one was different. I really found something special in this one. And I couldn't believe it was over. I was heart broken. To be continued...

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Get Back Together With Your Ex By Learning How to Let Go

One of the more important things to do if you want to get back together with your ex is learn how to let go. The irony to that statement is that it is also one of the hardest things to do as well. Our natural tendancy seems to be to hold on tighter and tighter with no loosening of the grip what-so-ever.

Well, the problem is that won't help you to get back together with your ex. In fact, that may just be the final act to close that door of opportunity all together.

See, now it the time that your ex needs to be left alone. For two reasons: one he has asked for a break and hanging on not giving that to him or her will just push them away. Two, they'll never miss you if you don't give them that time to know you are gone.

(Tips like these and more can be found at get back together with your ex.)

Trust me, there was a reason the two of you got together in the first place. Unless, there is just pure disgust with eachother when the relationship ends...you will miss eachother. It may not be everything about one another. But certain things will bring a smile. Good memories you shared will come to mind. He recall the things about you that he was very attracted to. I can guarantee, there will be some missing going on.

So let those things happen. Give him or her some alone time and let them miss you. Those are two essential ingredients in your attempts to get back together with your ex.

(If you want more great advice to give you your best shot at getting together with your ex, visit get back together with ex)

To you success in love,

Jo Chris
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