What Worked for Me - How to Make My Ex Love Me Again

I've shared my story with others, who had been through a breakup, about how to make my ex love me again. They wanted to know what they to could do to get an ex back. For any others who may be going through the heartache of saying goodbye to a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife, here is the best way I recommend to get back together with your ex.

First, a little background is necessary to help explain why this action worked. Otherwise, without explanation it would be like trying to solve global warming without knowing what’s causing the problem in the first place.

I met my ex through someone I was dating. I had heard stories about him that didn’t always put him in the best light. However having said that, I still thought he was cute and deep down I knew I was attracted to him. When the first guy I was seeing and I were through, I still had the opportunity to be around my ex through another friend. That is when the attraction grew. His interest in me stemmed from the air of mystery and confidence I displayed. He asked me out because he wanted to learn more about me and solve that mystery. We became a couple because of that person who I was. However after several months he broke up with me because the mystery was gone and so was the confidence I displayed. I lost myself in him and the idea of us.

When he broke up with me I was heart broken. I didn’t want it to be over and I admit making mistakes in the way I was trying to get him back. After a couple of months wishing I could find a way about how I could get back together with him, I made my decision to stop crying, moping, feeling depressed, and acting stupid. If I was going to get my ex back then I needed to take positive action. The first step was asking the question about how to make my ex love me again. It’s amazing the answers that come when we just ask…but I don’t want to digress.

I started looking for help, trying to learn all I could. In my search I found one thing that stood out. The biggest thing I realized was that the attraction was gone when the person he first got together with was gone too. (I was no longer the cool, confident, easy come easy go person), So that was when I knew it was time to find me again. I needed to rediscover me not just for our sake but for mine as well. So I set out on a journey for change.

(My biggest help came from a guide that taught me how to make my ex love me again.)

First, I stopped communicating with him at every opportunity that came up, coming up with reasons to just talk to him. Because we were involved in the same circles, I would still see him. I was always polite and friendly but the interaction was brief. This was just to keep him within arm’s reach so he didn’t forget me and what we shared. From there though, I got busy…busy working on me.

I went back to night school. I started a new business, met new friends, started working out and getting healthy. I was learning who I was and becoming the person I always wanted to be.

Eventually, after a few months he started seeing something different in me. I was gaining my self confidence again, (by the way, a very attractive feature in anyone), and he was noticing. And although it was a little different this time, the air of mystery had returned. Plus, I was sporting a newly transformed body, mentality, and demeanor. And the combination of these things got him interested once again…so much so that we started seeing each other again.

To shorten and already long story, today we are back together in a much stronger, healthier, and happier relationship. I for one couldn’t be happier and I know I am a better person for all that this has taught me, better for us but mostly better for me.

That story was my answer in how to make my ex love me again. That story is most likely the answer to that question for you as well. Improve you and no matter what happens, you’ll come out on top. Just think; a better you and your ex back too. It’s like having cake and eating it too.

(If you are looking for answers on how to get back together with your ex, check out how to make my ex love me again.)

Wishing you peace, happiness, and ultimate love,

Jo Christ