I Got My Boyfriend Back and I am So Very Happy about it I Could Simply Cry

Here's a story that was shared with me from a fan of one of the best resources I've ever seen to help get back together with your ex, The Magic of Making Up.  Remember, I can say that because it helped me to get back together with my ex and from this story, apparently it's helping others do the same.  Discover how Ashley got here boyfriend back here.

I've been hanging here on the couch together with my girl, Mandy, crying together with laughing both at the same time. In fact we're both being so goofy and o giddy, it really is a riot. Then I almost pee on myself when we get to laughing so hard. Oh No! Here I go starting to giggle again. Wait for a second.  As soon as I stop laughing I can tell you about it all....Okay, I'm good now.


See, it was nearly six months ago, though I can remember it like yesterday, my boyfriend dumped me.  He said it was over and then said goodbye. I know you can imagine, how so totally devastated I was.  At first I couldn't believe he told me that.  I was in shock.  Then, when the meaning of those words sunk in, I started to hurt...inside, like someone what digging a hole into my heart and yet it wasn't a physical pain just a hurt deep in my chest...It was a broken heart.

After that I was just a wreck.  It seemed that all I was doing was crying every moment of the day.  My mind was distracted and I couldn't think.  I found when I did think, it was only about my ex.  If you've ever had a broken heart then you know what I’m saying huh?

After just a few days into the saddest event of my life, it hit me! It was like a charge from a white hot lightning bolt piercing through the sky and hitting me. You know, I love this guy.  I really, really love him and spending the rest of my life with him was what I really wanted. That's when the initial question popped into my head about, "How do I get him back?"

I tried a borage texting and calling to no avail.  All he did was ignore me.  I even followed him like some kind of mad stalker...although it seemed perfectly sane at the time.  Then I hit my lowest when I went to his place and nearly begged him to take me back.  I was almost even on my knees. Jacob was very kind and gentle while he tried to explained what he was going through.  But then he asked me to leave and that’s when I lost it. I blew my top and then I left.

When I got home I immediately phoned Mandy, literally being unable to talk and bawling my eyes out again.  Thank God she rushed over not only to offer comfort but also give some much needed advice.

See, Mandy went through a breakup with her man last year as well.  She was very familiar with what I was going through so when we talked she told me how she had tried all the same things I had and you know what...they didn’t work for her either. It was then I asked, "O.K., so how did you get John back then?”

She said, “Lisen.” “Ashley first off,  you've got to stop acting like such a fool. Now's the time you need to figure why Jacob left you.  Then, once we discover that we can layout the game plan that will get him back.” And trust me that‘s exactly what we did.

Mandy busted out her copy of the “Magic of Making Up” and wrote down the list of strategies she used and the ones I would need to utilize if I really wanted to win my ex back:

* Start working on me to look my best, not just part of the time but all of the time
* Figure out why Jacob and I had fallen in love in the first place
* Get back to doing the things that had originally attracted Jacob to me
* Stop bothering him...IE: stop texting, stop calling, and stop going to his house

To put and end to an already long story, I went through with our battle plan.  I followed it to a "T" and guess what.  Last night Jacob asked me to marry him. Oh my God! And the ring is gorgeous. And that is the reason why I’m so happy I could cry.

But to tell you the truth, without Mandy's help and her tips from the Magic of Making Up I would have lost Jacob and he would be gone forever.

That's wonderful news for Ashley.  You can see that she is definitely excited and there is a tremendous amount of joy in her recent turn of events.  It is an amazing and wonderful feeling when you can say, I got my boyfriend back.

Wishing for you the biggest success in love,

Jo Chris
The Magic of Making Up

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Here's Some "How Do I Win Ex Back Advice" That Works

When you break up with someone or that person breaks up with you, there are a ton of different emotions swirling around.  Initially, if you're the person left behind the idea of winning your ex back comes automatically.  However, if you're the person who left...then the thought of winning your ex back doesn't come to mind until you realize that this is the person you care about and want to be with.  Then you are left desperate looking for some how to win ex back advice that will work.  After all, breaking someone's heart is going to require more than chocolates and flowers to fix.

Before you go pursing the one you left, it would be a good idea to really consider if you want that person back because you really care about him or are you just looking to fill a void and heck, you are familiar with this person so why not...at least until the next best thing comes along.  If you aren't looking for something permanent, please do your ex a favor and leave him alone.

If you are the one left behind and you are trying to get the how to win ex back advice for yourself, I would give the same precautions.  Make sure this person...this relationship is something you really want before putting the time and energy it will take to win your ex back.

If after thinking about the subject you decide to move on then just remember the lesson the event taught you in order to hopefully make your next relationship better.  However, if you have decided your ex is the one for you...great!  Now it's time to get him.

First, always remember compassion.  If you were the one walking out the door it's important to understand the hurt and pain you caused to the one watching you go.  If you were the one left behind, this is an excellent time to recognize that there was a reason your current ex left.  And if you want that ex back, it time to make those changes now. 

Hey, it's always important to remember that relationships are a two way street.  In both ways, understanding, compassion, and respect are a must in order to make the relationship a success.  The old saying do unto others....yea, you know it...works really well here.     


Now it's time to apply the strategies in the how to win ex back advice that will help convince them to give you a another chance.  And believe me when I say there are a lot of strategies.  Let's just make sure to stick with the ones that work, okay?

First, it helps if you can see their point of view.  Try to understand how they are feeling and take things gently and at their pace. If you did the breaking up, you may need to convince them that you are not just bored of single life but actually miss them as a person.  You will have to remind them of all the reasons why they fell in love with you and why your relationship as a couple is worth salvaging.  If you were the one your ex was leaving, it's time to make some changes in your life that will captivate your ex's attention and make him want you back.  (Just remember that trying to make him or her jealous is not a winning tactic.) 

Regardless of which side of the fence you reside from, remember there is no way you can force another person to fall in love with you.  That technique isn't even worth trying.  Getting angry or jealous doesn't work either.  You need to show them that you are mature and worth their time.  You need to prove that you are 100% committed to achieving happiness as a couple and that you want them in your life forever and not just because you are now lonely.

It would be well worth reading a couple of relationship advice books to make sure that you give this chance to win ex back your best shot.  We often only get one real chance to convince our ex partners to take us back.  Don't ruin it by being unprepared.

Follow this how to win ex back advice and get the one you love back in the quickest time you ever thought possible.

To your success in love

Jo Chris

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How to Win Love Back and Get Back Together With Your Ex

It's easy to fall into routines and habits in relationships where we all end up taking what we have for granted. We simply expect the other person to be there until one day the relationship comes crumbling down around you. Fortunately learning how to win love back and get back together with your ex is easier than most people believe.

The problem with most 'how to win love back' tactics is that they don't take into consideration the primary differences between the way men and women think. Women will try very hard to make their man understand how much they love him and need him, while men view actions as speaking louder than any words you can say.

If you're serious about learning how to win love back so you can get back together with your ex, then you'll need to spend a bit of time removing the words from your relationship's memories and taking a look at what your actions were saying.

Most women can think of times when they were trying hard to tell their man that they love him and want him to stay. You know the words you said, but what did your actions say? To a man, you would have been showing him how upset you were and how hurt you were. In his mind, he would have been thinking that he's the cause of all your misery, so you'd be better off if he just broke up with you. This means all your reassurances of how much you love him actually pushed him away!

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Think about all the times where you both argued and got angry. Your words might have been trying to make him see reason and understand your point of view, but your actions were telling him something very different. Your man wouldn't have heard the words you shouted at him. He would only have seen a very unhappy woman who really wasn't happy with the man before her. His mind would instantly have thought he was the cause of your misery and he believes it's easier to break up with you rather than keep making you so unhappy. The same thing is true if you give him the silent treatment.

When you're learning how to win back love in order to get back together with your ex, you have to realize that your actions will speak far louder than any words you can say. Your partner wants you to be happy. He also wants to believe you're happy when you're spending time with him. The best possible way to show him that he's the right man for you is to go out and work on your own self-confidence levels.

When you feel happy within yourself and you're confident and brimming with life, you're irresistible to the man who fell in love with you. After all, when the relationship was still new and exciting, you were both bubbly and happy and pleased to spend time with each other. This is the version of you your partner fell in love with.

Spend some time working on things that make you happy. Hang out with friends or take a walk to clear your unhappy thoughts. Watch a fun movie and then suggest that you catch up with your man over a friendly cup of coffee. Your actions will show that you're a more pleasant person to be with and his feelings will start to re-kindle as though by magic.

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To your ultimate success in love,

Jo Chris

The Magic of Making Up