You CAN Win Your Love Back - The Example of Katie and Brad

Sometimes I know it seems impossible, but you can win your love back. I’ve got a great story to share with you as an example. It’s the story of Katie and Brad.

See, Katie made a major mistake. She saw Brad talking to her best friend Andrea and thought he was flirting with her. Katie worked herself into a fury and broke up with Brad.

As it turned out, Brad was actually consulting with Andrea on how to put together a surprise romantic Valentine’s date. But he was extremely hurt that Katie would think so little of him and decided he didn’t want to have to do anything to do with her after that.

You may think that you couldn’t win your love back after such a situation. But Katie wasn’t willing to give up so easily. Let me tell you what she did to get back together with Brad.

Well, as you can imagine Brad wasn’t talking to her, so she couldn’t discuss the situation with him. But she could write him a letter. She got some nice paper and hand wrote an apology. She admitted that she had flown off the handle. She also told him what she liked about him and about the relationship. Finally, she expressed gratitude for his thoughtfulness in planning a romantic date. Then, she shut up. She didn’t call, text or email him for a week. By not pestering him, she gave him time to work through his emotions.

After a week, she sent him a short and sweet “thinking of you” email. She kept it casual.
Brad was obviously nuts about Katie because he was willing to go to the trouble of impressing her on Valentine’s Day. But, he was also hurt. Because Katie had apologized and given him time to work through his emotions, he was able to respond to the “thinking of you” email.

The night he got the email, he called Katie. She tried to keep things light and fun. Brad appreciated that. So, he suggested they meet for coffee and Katie agreed.

Katie went out of her way to look like a million bucks. She wore the earrings Brad had given her for Christmas and she put on the perfume that he liked so much.

Katie decided that she would only talk about positive things. She especially tried to bring fond memories into the conversation. She also asked about his family because that would reinforce their shared history and closeness.

Brad appreciated this. He loved Katie and didn’t want things to end. But, he didn’t want a repeat of the situation either. He needed to be reassured that their life together wouldn’t be filled with needless drama. He also needed to know that talking to another woman wouldn’t set off fireworks.

The couple agreed to get back together but that they would take the relationship to a less intense level. They would really court each other again. They would stop taking each other for granted.

(Katie followed the tips here, win your love back. It's the advice needed when you're trying to get back together with the one you love.)

Now, one year later, Brad and Katie agree that the break up may have actually saved their relationship over the long haul. While Katie initially flew off the handle, her calm handling of the situation afterward made it possible for them to move on. She showed you can win your love back.

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To your ultimate success in love,
Jo Chris

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What Worked for Me - How to Make My Ex Love Me Again

I've shared my story with others, who had been through a breakup, about how to make my ex love me again. They wanted to know what they to could do to get an ex back. For any others who may be going through the heartache of saying goodbye to a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife, here is the best way I recommend to get back together with your ex.

First, a little background is necessary to help explain why this action worked. Otherwise, without explanation it would be like trying to solve global warming without knowing what’s causing the problem in the first place.

I met my ex through someone I was dating. I had heard stories about him that didn’t always put him in the best light. However having said that, I still thought he was cute and deep down I knew I was attracted to him. When the first guy I was seeing and I were through, I still had the opportunity to be around my ex through another friend. That is when the attraction grew. His interest in me stemmed from the air of mystery and confidence I displayed. He asked me out because he wanted to learn more about me and solve that mystery. We became a couple because of that person who I was. However after several months he broke up with me because the mystery was gone and so was the confidence I displayed. I lost myself in him and the idea of us.

When he broke up with me I was heart broken. I didn’t want it to be over and I admit making mistakes in the way I was trying to get him back. After a couple of months wishing I could find a way about how I could get back together with him, I made my decision to stop crying, moping, feeling depressed, and acting stupid. If I was going to get my ex back then I needed to take positive action. The first step was asking the question about how to make my ex love me again. It’s amazing the answers that come when we just ask…but I don’t want to digress.

I started looking for help, trying to learn all I could. In my search I found one thing that stood out. The biggest thing I realized was that the attraction was gone when the person he first got together with was gone too. (I was no longer the cool, confident, easy come easy go person), So that was when I knew it was time to find me again. I needed to rediscover me not just for our sake but for mine as well. So I set out on a journey for change.

(My biggest help came from a guide that taught me how to make my ex love me again.)

First, I stopped communicating with him at every opportunity that came up, coming up with reasons to just talk to him. Because we were involved in the same circles, I would still see him. I was always polite and friendly but the interaction was brief. This was just to keep him within arm’s reach so he didn’t forget me and what we shared. From there though, I got busy…busy working on me.

I went back to night school. I started a new business, met new friends, started working out and getting healthy. I was learning who I was and becoming the person I always wanted to be.

Eventually, after a few months he started seeing something different in me. I was gaining my self confidence again, (by the way, a very attractive feature in anyone), and he was noticing. And although it was a little different this time, the air of mystery had returned. Plus, I was sporting a newly transformed body, mentality, and demeanor. And the combination of these things got him interested once again…so much so that we started seeing each other again.

To shorten and already long story, today we are back together in a much stronger, healthier, and happier relationship. I for one couldn’t be happier and I know I am a better person for all that this has taught me, better for us but mostly better for me.

That story was my answer in how to make my ex love me again. That story is most likely the answer to that question for you as well. Improve you and no matter what happens, you’ll come out on top. Just think; a better you and your ex back too. It’s like having cake and eating it too.

(If you are looking for answers on how to get back together with your ex, check out how to make my ex love me again.)

Wishing you peace, happiness, and ultimate love,

Jo Christ

My Story of How I Got Back Together With My Ex

So after getting the new book, it became my prized possession. I must have read it 10 times in order to get everything down right.

I was able to see that in all my attempts to do everything right to get back together with my ex...I was actually doing everything WRONG!!! Time and space was necessary. Enough to let him know I wasn't and obsessed nut case and only so much to allow me to grow, make some changes, and let him see a new me.

Interestingly enough, I learned that finding a new me was important too. In fact, finding a new me, improving on who I was ended up being more important than showing off the new boyfriend to my ex. Ultimately, it was that new me that helped me get back together with my ex.

Even still it took more than improving on me. It took a lot of other things combined with my own personal changes to win back his love.

(All those other things are all described in the book called the Magic of Making Up. You can learn more about the book here.)

Again, to keep a long story short, (and I could go on and on because when you get back together with your ex, there is so much happiness you can't help but want to talk about it constantly), after about 18 months, my ex and I are back together. I can't stop smiling. Not to mention, our relationship is better than ever thanks to what I've learned about me...thanks to what I've learned from The Magic of Making Up.

To think, just over a year ago my world had come crashing down and I thought that I would never be with the man I love, ever again. And now, not only was I able to get back together with my ex, we are happier than ever.

This dream come trus is something I would wish for everyone.

(The Magic of Making Up...it works!!!)

To your success in love,

Jo Chris

Get Back Together With My Ex - My Story Continued...

For awhile I was lost. Although I really wanted him back, I really had no idea about how to get I could. And...although he broke up with me, he kept calling which told me that I still meant something. Still, with no answers about how to proceed for us to be together again.

Of course during this time while I stayed at home to wallow in my own self pity, he was out trying to find love..."in all the wrong places". Meaning, everywhere I was not. And when I heard he was interested in someone else and started seeing someone new...that's when I made my biggest mistake. I broke his trust.

I started talking to his best friend about him trying to find some solace in the fact that he had found somebody new. I saw the look on my ex's face when my he learned we had been talking about him. I won't ever forget it because I knew I had hurt him by breaking the trust and faith he had in me...even as a friend. And I knew he was mad. That just made my chances as getting back together with him, non-existent.

The communication with him had all but stopped. And I knew that I had messed up pretty bad. My hopes had been squashed at ever getting back together. But then I did some research. Even amongst the smallest of hopes, I was still trying to find a way to make amends and get my ex back.

That's when I found a book that would be the answer to prayer. To be continued...

(If your looking for an answer to your prayer to get back together with your ex...visit The Magic of Making Up. I know that if it can help me, it can help you.)

To your ultimate success in love,

Jo Chris

Get Back Together With Your Ex - My Story

I wanted to share with you my story of how I was able to get back together with my ex. I hope that it will give you some inspiration and hope for your situation.

(So I don't bore you with details, here is the abbreviated version.)

I met him a few years back under some bizarre circumstances. He was seeing someone I knew, they were having problems, broke up, and somewhere along the line I came into the picture. I didn't ever plan on anything happening but it did.

We were together for several months and although we share good times when we were together, we weren't really going anywhere. And the person he thought I was got lost in the comfort of the relationship. (That seemed to be a habit of mine. My independance always seemed to disappear when I got involved with another person and I ended up getting wrapped up in them.)

Eventually, as in the previous relationships, I sensed something was wrong so I did the usual. By a really nice gift and drop the "L" word. Of course that worked...for a couple days and then I got the "Dear Jo" call. Of course not the one I wanted to hear.

Left broken hearted again but this one. Well, this one was different. I really found something special in this one. And I couldn't believe it was over. I was heart broken. To be continued...

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Get Back Together With Your Ex By Learning How to Let Go

One of the more important things to do if you want to get back together with your ex is learn how to let go. The irony to that statement is that it is also one of the hardest things to do as well. Our natural tendancy seems to be to hold on tighter and tighter with no loosening of the grip what-so-ever.

Well, the problem is that won't help you to get back together with your ex. In fact, that may just be the final act to close that door of opportunity all together.

See, now it the time that your ex needs to be left alone. For two reasons: one he has asked for a break and hanging on not giving that to him or her will just push them away. Two, they'll never miss you if you don't give them that time to know you are gone.

(Tips like these and more can be found at get back together with your ex.)

Trust me, there was a reason the two of you got together in the first place. Unless, there is just pure disgust with eachother when the relationship ends...you will miss eachother. It may not be everything about one another. But certain things will bring a smile. Good memories you shared will come to mind. He recall the things about you that he was very attracted to. I can guarantee, there will be some missing going on.

So let those things happen. Give him or her some alone time and let them miss you. Those are two essential ingredients in your attempts to get back together with your ex.

(If you want more great advice to give you your best shot at getting together with your ex, visit get back together with ex)

To you success in love,

Jo Chris
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